(((((((Mayhem)))))))

My Friend, I know it hurts to find out she has what you both had wanted. I get the feeling from reading your post that this may be the only child she may be lucky to have. It wasn't meant to be for the 2 of you. But you have another chance in life to get to where you would like to be. My little voice keeps telling me that within 5 years I bet there is a little Mayhem running around causing mayhem. It's gonna hurt for a bit, but think about the future you still have time for. Your EX is out of your life now and you can move on, you don't have to put up with her trying to destroy you anymore. Maybe she did'nt tell you at the time because she did'nt want you to hurt even more.
Think to the future my friend.
Sorry I have'nt been around to talk to, been trying to get these boxes packed up. If you need to chat, I'll make some time!

Huggs my friend.....hang in there!