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calihotguy, I really appreciate all you have said, I COMPLETELY agree with ALL of it. I feel I have confronted the girl about the problem and pretty much done everything you have said.
BTW... He is coming Sunday afternoon and leaving Monday morning, there have been guests that have stayed longer. So him using facilities should not be an issue, I understand where it would be if he was there longer. What is being told to me is that "I don't feel safe with someone coming from online." Now, I have no reason not to be trusted I have never endangered this house or anyone in it, so no there is no track record.
Here is what's up...
The Agitator as I like to call her, is this Christian that feels like she has to save everyone. So she judges you and then makes you feel guilty in her way that she presents as "Caring" about you. This has worked on me for two years, this year I have finally stoped and I frankly just don't talk to her anymore. We will talk and see how each other's day is going but I never tell her anything anymore. She is like this stelth spy that has her own ways of getting information. Not everyone sees her as this manipulative girl, they see her as caring and concerned. So everyone opens up and tells her things that have been told to them in privacy. She says, "I want to help her, what were you guys talking about earlier?"
Last night the Resident Advisor said that several girls had come to her door telling her they don't feel safe. THIS IS BULLSHIT... One girl besides my roomate knew. The Agitator has gone to the girl that knew and found out then spread it around the house, telling things she doesn't even know about and adding false information where she didn't know the truth. I never told anyone that I was having someone come from online, I just said that I have someone visiting from Chicago that I have been friends with for awhile. She has assumed it was online (no matter she was right) and told everyone about it.
Now TODAY'S problem with the girl...
She comes bounding up to me right after I walk in the door from work and tells me, "I know why you guys unbunked your bed!" I was like yeah I kept hitting my head and hurting myself. She looked at me like "I know better." And says, "Marie heard what was going on up there with Kari and James." I laughed and said, " yeah James found out the bed squeaks when you bounce on it so he finds it funny and does it all the time" Again she gave me this face. She said, "Next time James comes over make sure Marie isn't home."
BTW... Kari met James online as well... but he has never stayed the night just comes over often, but it didn't matter with him...
Ok so the problem with this conversation, she went ahead and said something in front of Jenny who is another Christian that is just very quiet and doesn't ever judge, she is the most amazing person I have ever met. Anyway this conversation should have never been had in front of her.
The next problem with it, Marie's room is below, and while it is possible for the bed to move and make noise they have been doing it for 2 monthes and nothing was heard before so why suddenly now??? The bed has started squeaking, damn springs, and they might have heard that but only if she had her ear pressed to the door, which she has been caught doing on several occassions.
The Last problem with this girl, she likes to find a problem and then go tell it to everyone else. She tries to get me into it, and I just walk away. She stirs up more trouble than anyone I have ever seen.
What can I say to this girl to make her STOP!!? Why the hell can't this girl keep her nose in her own business???
My roomate and I think it's crap, we HATE the Girl and I have fantasies of killing her. ok that was a bit of a joke... Honestly what can I do to make her stop!?
My roomate will post more about this girl... she has never directly attacked her until tonight... I can't post anymore cause I am just so upset with this girl I could probably go on for another hour.
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