The best thing is to talk talk talk talk talk talk if he wants and open relationship and you want that as well then you need to make sure that the comunications between you to are working. With open relationships you have to trust your partner to follow the rules that both of you have set forth before hand.

If this is something that you do not want you need to tell him that you do not want it, and if he still wants after you talked about then get rid of him and find some one that will listen to what you want and need.

Just so that you know i was in a open relationship with my last relationship she was the one that wanted it and when i started to partake of the openess of it she got upset. Then i found out that she could not be trusted.

Remember that you and he need to set down and talk about what you all want.

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