I have the same problem. Mr. Osuche is very...conservative....and frankly has a lower libido than I do. Here are some things that work for me:

1. Be suggestive, not slutty. If he's like Mr. Osuche, he'll object to suggestive...but he'll keep watching because he's fascinated (his mouth indicates a complaint, his eyes will tell you to continue)

2. Describe something that would make you really happy if he tried....and then encourage him gently to make the attempt. If he loves you, he'll want to please you

3. Set up an elaborate system of quid pro quo...or do what I sometimes (jokingly) do...ask him to pay a "toll" (such as kissing you or something else) every time he does something that is a bad habit of his

4. Catch him unaware and seduce him

5. Start talking dirty during sex. It will encourage him.

6. Whisper suggestions in his ear.

7. Have a no-holds barred...."what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas" weekend.


Good luck!

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