Well thank you all for the advice.It turns out that he just told me that hoping I would break up with him to make it easier on himslef.Yes he does wantto fuck other women still, and he even wants to still fuck me ocassionally he just doesnt want a relationship cramping his style and not letting him be the big man on campus that he so obviously is.It sounds as if im mad but its more hurt than anything else.We had some issues but this did all come out of left field he had kept things bottled up for months and refused to tell me even when i asked.He took my heart and put it into the shredder and now just wants to move on and act like we never were yes i sound like every o ther pathetic girl whos ever been dumped and i guess ii am.Ill just never understand mans capacity ti hurt .I in a million years could never have done this to someone i say i love(im talking about the methos he chose to break up with me and the actions he didnt take) especially when he says he still loves me.I dunno i have an empty burning hole where my heart used to be and i dont understand how in a week your whole life ceases to exist.