My mum is a step mum and let me say my step sister and sometimes the brothers made her life a living hell for their young years....she in no way tried to take the place of the bilogical mum...but did expect respect (as well she should get)

I've seen first hand as i was growing up the stresses step families can give to a step parent

My Dad is also a step parent...and he has bought up my sister as his own...no stresses...He may be her Step dad...but to her and my Dad there is no step part

Just be careful what you may be taking on if you decide to become that role.....depending on the kids and the whole situation is can be a good thing or a bad...only you know the whole story and can make the best decision

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