ok chap, we've all heard why she wants you back but relaly whats in it for you??

here's what I've heard from this and your previous threads, basically she wants you around for convience, but says your incompetent? wtf mate?

I could see her possibly saying you can't make parenting decisions if she could claim that you weren't a parent and "didn't knwo what it felt like" but you have your own child so she's pretty much saying, yeah your too dense to raise your own kid so I don't want you near mine

sounds like she has no love or respect for you at all, nothing that would be considered "love" anyway, I mean heck I "love" having a microwave , makes me life alot easier and more convient and I only have to give it just as much attention as I want and it still gives me the results I need.

unfortuantly yo uaren't a microwave your a person, you have needs and wants as well, and she doesn't seem to understand this, all I can say is run chap, I'd stay as far outta her life as you can while still seeing your child.

now I know you guys have al ong history and your probally thinking to yourself yeah well she has her side of the argument too, doesn't matter, her wants and needs to not outweight your own, you can't be a doormatt for someone else because they make you feel that way.

she's not looking for a step parent, she's not looking for a husband, she's looking for a filler for her kids father, someone who is willing to pick up the slack of whatever roles he's decided not to fill.

All I can say is move on , You deserve to be in a relationship where you can be happy instead of treated like that , and the closer she is to you the more she's gonna lay that guilt trip bullshit on you to bring you down enough so she can manipulate you into doing what she wants.

lol sorry if that was a little wordy but i was annoyed enough at this woman after reading your last thread and the ridiculous way she treats you and if after 8 years she doesn't even see you as competent to make parental decisions? she obviously has no respect for you at all, you gotta get outta there, and most important don't look back

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