thanks for all the great answers everyone ... of course I've got to change my mind now cause I totally spaced the chair that is MY MOST prized possession .... probably not much actual value, but it is the sole remaining dining room chair from 12 that belonged to my Great Grandmother in the mid 1800's .... it has this really cool hand carving done on the top piece of the back of the chair.

And I wasn't trying to depress anyone, sometimes I ask myself questions just to make sure I'm still on track with choices I'm making and what my priorities are. .... thanks again