What I don't understand is...why don't you understand her platform?

Oh Hon...she's USING you like I've never seen before...and you seem to be honestly perplexed as to what your role would be when/if you return!!!???

As asked above...what's in this for you? Closeness to your son? Don't you get that through court orders and visitational rights? Did you even go to court? I am assuming you did cause you have to pay support. Please tell us you didn't abide by a set support payment made by her!!!!!!!!????????

Lemme say this just from reading this and another of your threads...

You are a follower personified...and this "ex" of yours knows it and is going to play you like a fiddle till you take holda those balls of yours and hike um high and tell her your wants and needs and STICK BY THEM!!!!!! She is leading you around by the nose and setting rules that she can live with but that'll leave you high and dry!

As a disclaimer...I'll admit I am wrong if you can say I have hit upon anything that doesn't strike a chord of truth!

Best wishes sweety! Please know I say all of the above with a caring that only other Pixies can know!!!!

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~Thomas Dewar~