I'm not really one to give advice,but I have been married,to the same woman,
for just over 40yrs.Every good relationship,is based on compromise!I have
seen,many,relationships fail because,in the long term,people try to make the other,be as they would like.They don't seem to realize,that it isn't what
attracted them, in the first place!Many may disagree,but that's my $.02.
Irish

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