lately when reading posts in sex chat i've been wondering if i was on a support board or on somewhere to exchange sexual ideas fairly safely. bad things happen to everyone in life. there's an old saying that if we were to throw our problems on the table we'd pick our own back. not that i'm insensitive to others' suffering but i come here to relax from the shit in life and lately i've been leaving bummed out. maybe there should be an other forum for support. yeah i know i don't need to take on other people's suffering but i find myself doing so. anyway i'd like to know if i'm alone feeling like this?....am i some jerk? i got a thick skin so even if your responce is a written bitch slap (not meant derogatory to women) i'd like posts and speak plainly as if to someone who has an incomplete grip on english as i can be fairly dense sometimes.

thanx

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The only thread I can think offhand is the newest thread about Rape...I don't know what to say, I don't see anything wrong with it, but that is just me. Some people use the boards as a way to help with their problems, others use the boards to be playful, however you can always make suggestions to the moderators.

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Sometimes things are heavy, sometimes they're light hearted.......

sometimes I have a headache that won't frigging quit. UGH!



That's life...and that's what it's like posting on BB's. (ALL bulletin boards and forums have these qualities.)

There are many topics and if ya don't enjoy one there's always another you can join in on.

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Everyone knows that laugher is great foreplay!

That is the little difference of Pixies: We are a kind of family, and we have a lot of friends here. There must be room for the shared bad times also.
Nobody is forcing you to read things that knock you down. You cannot force anybody to be happy all the time.
And during the recent time many members simply haven´t been in the mood for lots of fun. But I keep my thumb up for the future.

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I agree with GS......if someone doesn't like the content of a thread .........don't read it! Simple concept really. It is a Forum site after all!

I on the other hand don't like to see condesending remarks and feel if someone has issue with someone else then take it up in a p.m. with that person......

Having tried this i can assure you it does not always solve the problem.....the PMer often then finds themselves reported for harrassment!!

I do not see anything wrong with a polite debate....or mild argument being aired in the forums....the input of other members can usually diffuse the situation anyway....

I will always say what i feel...sorry if that upsets ppl...but hey thats me...If ya piss me off i'll fire back...

Anyway back on topic....We cannot be all rosey all the time...bad stuff happens...if ya dont like the thread...don't read it

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ok so this is probably directed at me, the rape thread and all..... I cleared it with a moderator before I posted, I cleared the poll and the first post, I put a great deal of thought injto it and tried to be unobtrusive, shit happens hon, I don't give a damn about the football scores but they put it in my paper anyway, I didn't say "you have to read this so I can ruin your night" I had questions, I wanted to know if sexual mis-experiances affected anyone elses preferences I wanted to know if maybe I'm just some kind of freak (Souls don't say a word.)
I'm guessing had it been a masturbatorial fantasy ........

..... the strangers breath hitting my neck as he uncerimoniously
pushed me to the ground, the rocks bite into my lower back as lust bites into my soul. my distaste for him only makes me wetter, the sound of ripping clothes only fuels my need for my pussy to be filled with him......

oh wait I was 13 so I guess it can't be masturbatory material

sorry I'm in a hell of a mood
sorry that I let real life interfere with the board again

tired, and broken
but the whole worlds smiling, see the crows feet,

Kyttn

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Poor Kyttn,
you write what you feel, and the reason you wrote that here is cause you know that we are FAMILY here. You know that if you write that that people will NOT look at you differently and you know that people will be there for you.

I can say YES reading that did effect me, I did feel down, I did feel sad, wana know why ?!? cause I care thats why.. If i said I didnt feel anything well that would be a lie wouldnt it...

Kyttn- HUGS to you sweetie you just keep on writing what ever you want and the pixies family will be there for you...

dzbuster- you do have a great point maybe we should make a new thread somewhere a support board i think you called it. THat might be a great idea...

GG also had a pretty heavy thread and my thoughts are with him also...

HUGS to all
Sar-

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Ditto what Sar said. We are family here, and hence we offer one another support. I do see what dz is saying also, as in, here's a sex board but I'll be darned if I feel sexy now. There is a strong case to be made for if you don't like it don't read it. (Which I agree with, by the way.) The other side of that is until you open the thread, you are not sure what is waiting to be read inside. If I opened Kyttn's thread just to see what it was, (like I did), I would read it through even if that was not what I was looking for. Curiosity killed the mood or some such thing... I very much like the idea of a support category, just like the smut games category was added. We have a great support group here at Pixies, and I think it's a great thing. We also have great group of smut enthusiasts! How about a little seperation of the two?

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In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

bama if i had meant only that one thread i would have said so. hell, when my kitten got squished i appreciated the kind words i received. in the last week this was the third downer thread i read. if i disagreed with them being posted i would have spoken out differantly than the method i chose here. i agree that some people here cause me to smile. i'm just wondering if maybe there should be a forum for non-sexual hugs. as far as the rape thread from my understanding rape has less to do with sex and more to do with violence

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Good points from all sides!

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I can see your point mate, but I needed somewhere to get my stuff off my chest and here is the only place where i feel safe enough to do it. Dont read it if it doesnt suit you.

The family atmosphere here makes this place so special.

There is definitely a case to be made for "if you don't like the subject, don't read it!" But, as Aqua said, sometimes you can't tell from the title of the thread exactly what it will be about. And by the time you start reading, you're hooked and have to finish. Yes, some of them make you incredibly sad, some make you angry, and some you really feel the other person's hurt.
We ARE a family here..surprising as that is to someone new who naturally expects everything here to revolve around sex.
I have certainly posted my share of threads asking for support from my friends here. And I'm eternally grateful for that support!
I'm glad that BamaKyttn and Grumbleguts felt comfortable enough with us and trusted us enough to start the threads in question. And that those that posted to BamaKyttn's thread, exposing their secrets felt that same trust and comfort. I don't know of many other places where we could expose our souls like this and not get flamed or ridiculed.
But perhaps dzbuster isn't completely off base...and maybe we do need a new forum called the Support Forum or Pixies Supporting Pixies Forum or some other clever title? That way only those that are truly interested have to read those types of posts.

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Personally, I find most of the content interesting. But like someone said "if you don't like it, don't read it." It all has to do with your on personal likes and dislikes or what you are into. Pick the ones that interest you and leave the others to the rest of us....You don't go into a music store and buy a CD because the person next to you bought do you? It is just personal choice...relax, read and enjoy...you might learn something. Hope I didn't offend anyone. Just adding my two cents worth.

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I beleive in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I beleive in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Kevin Costner/Bull Duram

"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.