
04-19-2003, 11:43 AM
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Location: NJ
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I just went through sort of the same thing. I am in the recovery stage too and starting to feel better after a relationship of almost three years. It sucks when you realize you are in it alone and the other person doesn't care like you do. In my case I cared too much for my own good. Everyday I was feeling like I was being shut down and not cared about and that gets tiresome after awhile. You need to care about yourself, sit back and assess the situation and think about what you are really looking for. Eventually, either your relationship will change for the better or you will get to the point of saying no and you can't settle for this anymore and just move on. Remember what they say when one door closes another opens especially when you leat expect it. I know it's very hard because you can't help your feelings and if you have strong emotional feelings for this person it makes things rough because all your thinking about is how you are feeling but if it is only one sided and the feelings aren't being returned then you have to care more about yourself. I wish you lots of luck.
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Missy
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