Now dont take that the wrong way, let me explain. Me and my GF have been having sex since our first date and it keeps getting better and better. Sometimes when she has a really strong orgasm she will claw my back(drawing blood and leaving some big welts). I did not even notice the first time she did it(i was a little to occupied with what i was doing to her) till i saw the blood on her fingers. She says that she did not even realize that she was doing it and she felt bad about it. I figued oh well, not a big deal, it will heal. Then it started happening more and more often to the point that my back was freaking killing me. Finally one night when we were having sex and she started reaching for my back i grabbed her hands and pinned them besider her head and held them there and proceded to pound her harder than i even have in the past, i dont know why, something inside me snapped and i wanted to get in some payback for what she did to my back i guess. Anyways to make a long story short she and me both had the best session we have ever had together. She says that when i held her down and got a little rough it was a HUGE turn on for her and she loved it. And i will admit it was a turn on for me to, felt like i was more in control. Now here is the question, is that normal? do girls like being held down or restrained in some way? i would think that it would make you girls feel like you are being raped(one of my ex's blew a gasket once when i held her down in bed). Anyways im open to comments on this, thanks guys!

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I love it when a man pins my arms and just takes charge.

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Well I'm a male and I can say that there's nothing wrong with holding down a womans arms and taking charge of your sexual desires on you SO. And as far as the nail thing goes, I also have small scars from my girls scratching habits, but that faded away as our relationship grew, kinda wish it didn't, I still wish she would dig her nails in me as hard as she could and scratch down. So correct me if I'm wrong, but a little domination from either gender is always normal

I love being taken charge of.....helpless and completely at their mercy....as long as I get to return the favor at some point

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oh yes!!! that is a HUGE turn on.

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I beleive in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I beleive in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Kevin Costner/Bull Duram

"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.

I think my very first erotic story for Pixies speaks for itself.

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Normal.

Sigh.

If there was one word in the English language I could permanently remove and make it a crime punishable by slow death to say it, 'normal' would be it.

Normal? What the hell is normal? And who the hell cares???

You've found something that turns you and your partner on, and something that doesn't hurt anyone.

So what if it is or isn't normal! Just enjoy it!

CasperTG

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I would kinda have to disagree with you on that one CasperTG. It's normal for men in other countries to beat there wives, but that doesn't make it ok either. It's Normal for a redneck to get shitfaced in bar and get behind the wheel of a car, but that doesn't make it ok either. I know what you are saying, about who cares what normal is to other people, but I think "Normal" can also be a good thing as well. Normal brings structure and we all need a little structure sometimes.

"Do you girls like being held down?" Yes.

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Yes I absolutely love it...it's a BIG turn on.

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This is about the sexiest list to hold down I have ever seen.

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Just last night...

My GF and I had watched "The Pianist" on DVD (valid Roman Polanski discussion would be OT here, but it is a wonderful movie). It was late, and we were both a little tired.

We got naked in bed, and I started gently licking here up and down her body. After that movie, we both needed some gentle, warm contact. After tasting how wet she was, I slowly entered her, and we kissed in stillness.

Slowly, we both started to move, and without our usual passionate gymnastics, she came a few times. After the second orgasm, she started to push back faster and harder, but I resisted, rocking gently. She started to push me over, so she could get on top, and under control. I pinned her left arm, then her right, then her legs with mine.

For a while, she tried to up the speed, but I kept up the slow, steady rhythm. When she softened to this, I started moving faster. Holding her down, she singing a soft. low, ohhhhhhh, I pounded until we collapsed in a sweaty mutual orgasm.

After catching our breath, she kissed me sweetly and thanked me for taking charge.

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Yes, I love having my partner take charge, and I love being held down during sex. But I would rather Bama, Lilith, SugarSprinkles or Sharni be the ones to do it. ( for example) I am only submissive to other women, I prefer a more dominant role with men.

Sexually

WW

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I like being held down too....

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