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Old 05-02-2004, 07:02 PM
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Remember that thing called Mystique?

mys·tique ( P ) Pronunciation Key (m-stk)
n.
An aura of heightened value, interest, or meaning surrounding something, arising from attitudes and beliefs that impute special power or mystery to it: the cowboy mystique; the mystique of existentialism.
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There is something to be said for those that have it, and who use it properly.

My point here is that sometimes, it is far more sexy for someone to give one, simple compliment, than to overdo it in an attempt to endear yourself to someone. For example: A guy thinks a girl's hot. He tells her this, and compliments various parts of her body in a flurry of word and activity. The result, in my case anyway, is that I would be kind of turned off. If someone merely said 'nice hair' or something, in passing, the compliment would be well-received, and appreciated.




Guess I'm just trying to say that sometimes, less is more. Be mysterious, use that mystique that we all have at our disposal.



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Old 05-02-2004, 07:10 PM
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Old 05-02-2004, 07:24 PM
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Old 05-02-2004, 08:13 PM
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I think, when someone complements me, they should say what ever is on their mind. Personally, I'm just greatfull someone stopped to take a peek at my pictures and say nice things.

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Old 05-02-2004, 08:19 PM
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I think, when someone complements me, they should say what ever is on their mind. Personally, I'm just greatfull someone stopped to take a peek at my pictures and say nice things.

~Eliza


It's not that I don't appreciate a compliment.. it's that sometimes a whole flurry of them, all at once, makes the giver seem.. a little.. um.. desperate.

That sounds harsh, but it's just.. something like "god, your boobs are so nice, what size are they, are you married? I'd love to get in your pants, nice ass, god I just want to lick and suck.. blah blah blah" all at once.. is just.. gah, it bugs me.

But then, that's just me. I enjoy honesty, I enjoy compliments, but that.. that kind of thing.. man.
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Old 05-03-2004, 08:07 AM
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how about just yum?
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Old 05-03-2004, 02:13 PM
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I think you are right.Sometimes you can talk yourself out of a good thing.Maybe people just try to hard at times and the result is a turn off. Sometimes less is better. But I agree....Nice tits.....
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Old 05-03-2004, 05:24 PM
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I get embarrassed...not turned off...well, maybe also a bit turned off...if someone goes on and on with compliments! I don't like to be mean and tell them to knock it off...but there is a fine line between genuine awe and overbearing!
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Old 05-03-2004, 05:28 PM
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Re: Remember that thing called Mystique?

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[i]Originally posted by Lilith_82 My point here is that sometimes, it is far more sexy for someone to give one, simple compliment, than to overdo it in an attempt to endear yourself to someone. For example: A guy thinks a girl's hot. He tells her this, and compliments various parts of her body in a flurry of word and activity. The result, in my case anyway, is that I would be kind of turned off. If someone merely said 'nice hair' or something, in passing, the compliment would be well-received, and appreciated.




Guess I'm just trying to say that sometimes, less is more. Be mysterious, use that mystique that we all have at our disposal.



(okay, I'm done) [/B]


Nice hair or SOMETHING!
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Old 05-04-2004, 02:19 PM
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I can't just say "nice tits"! It's not in me! I'm much more complex than that. There's subtle nuances to savor, slight hints of allure. And...








you've got a great ass too!
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Old 05-04-2004, 02:52 PM
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I said 'nice tits' to Lilith once....




















































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Old 05-04-2004, 06:56 PM
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I hate someone saying nice tits to me...cows have tits, I have breasts...well they were tits when I was nursing I guess. I am with Lilith82...don't overwheme me...I like mistique...like tight jeans on a guy..is a mystery to me what is underneath them..
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