Is it good Idea masturbate before going out on a date? (yes I know its very "Something about Mary") But after you jerk, does a guy lose his "mojo" or his libido? Im afraid that if i do masturbate, I wont be able to talk to this girl as smoothly.

If your comfort level depends on not masturbating...then I recommend you hold off.

I had no idea guys even thought about this issue?!

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It depends on how you are BEFORE you masturbate. Listen, if this is your first date, it's much better to be a nice, sweet, CALM guy than a "smooth" talker trying to work his "mojo. Just my opinion.

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Chances are you will be more relaxed and less anxious if you knock one out before hand.

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thanks for the help.

It should definitely help you to act like a person …………………………… unless the date is more than 10 minutes from now and not expected to last over 20 minutes.

You COULD open the relief valve a number of times before hand (so speak ) Then you will only be a horny guy with a sore dick. LMAO :grin:


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if ya wanna, then do.

if ya don't wanna, then don't.

I gotta admit, when I was in my twenties I would "drain off some energy" before a date. It gave me better staying power. The first orgasm just came so quickly. I sure don't do that now.

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never go out with a loaded weopon is what i have been told

I've masturbated after a date, more than once... does that count?? :grin:

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I always had to masterbate before a big date...even moreso if I a going to a bar. Not one for waking up and taking off the beer goggles.

For me it helps me think of the girl as a person and get to know them first....rather then be caught staring at cleevage all night. By the time the date is winding down I'm back in the game anyway.

Thank god. I thought I was the only one who did it. Well I think it's a good idea, you certainly feel alot more relaxed and it lessens the chance of getting a boner in the middle of the date. Now that would be devastating! Also when it comes time to making her "happy" you won't cum so damn quick. You're staying power will be doubled. Well that is what has happened to me. So as they say "wank on my fellow brother for we are all men with a tool built for one purpose."

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