04-03-2005, 10:56 AM
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Being Watched
I apologize if this thread is a dupe. But I recall there was a general discussion on being watched. And some folks really enjoyed being watched while masterbating etc, but others did not care for it.
Just curious for those who are not big fans of being watched...why not? For me, the awkwardness is a bit of a turn on in itself, I can't say as I am dying be watched, but would do it for the wife if it came up (so to speak).
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04-03-2005, 11:54 AM
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I think you are just talking about masterbating. Would you let someone watch you in the full act of sex? If not, why not?
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04-03-2005, 01:40 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Cjack
I think you are just talking about masterbating. Would you let someone watch you in the full act of sex? If not, why not?
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Now hold on there jack...lol! One question atta time, eh?
I have to be in the mood to have someone watch me masturbate, Jax. A really, really horny mood. I don't like "getting caught" when I think I am alone...but I like "getting caught" when I set it up to "get caught"...such as, when I am driving down the street and a trucker (let's say) can see into my vehicle and I am feeling sexy and horny...I might give him a show. Or...if I am in another room from my man and he thinks I am just waiting patiently for his return...and he walks in to find my legs spread...etc.
But...if I am alone (as far as I know) and I have the area I am in set up to have some alone time...and someone walks in...that just sucks the fun out of the moment!
Now jack...as to your query? No! I don't mind sharing my sexcapades with pictures at Pixies...but as to someone just sitting and watching as myself and another man are doing it...naaaaaaaaaa. No big turn on. I'd rather be the voyuer in an instance when one of the peeps having sex is aware I am watching and the other hasn't a clue. I've never stumbled upon this scenario, except in my fantasies or in porn...but the day ain't over yet (as they say)!
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04-03-2005, 03:48 PM
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Ohhhhh yeahhhhh JAX.....as for masterbation, i love to watch and be watched....either us taking turns or at the same time. It's just hot watching him watch me watch him.....
Cjack, as for your question....it's another big ohhhhh yeahhhhh...or at least half of it is anyway......i'd definitely like watching my partner get and give pleasure but i've never had a partner that wanted to watch me get and give.....so, until that happens, if ever, (and i'm the type that has to be completely convinced my partner is ok with it), i'll hafta leave it as a ????
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04-03-2005, 05:13 PM
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It's usually imagining that someone is watching me that sends me over the edge
I would love to have sex knowing I'm being watched but the idea of someone just happening to see it from the shadows is a huge turn on as well.
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04-03-2005, 08:42 PM
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I would do it for my SO, but as far as just doing it for fun--hell no!!
I start worrying about how I look, thinking my ass is big and that I'm not attractive, the other person is just being polite. Yes, I have low self esteem.
As far as full blown sex, I guess, if my partner agreed. At least that way some of the attention is taken off of me!
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04-03-2005, 09:00 PM
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Well I can remember being watched on several occasions and it was a pretty big turn on but I'm sure if intrusions or interruptions came about the thrill would die as quickly. It's all about the couple involved. If she weren't comfortable with it then I wouldn't go there. I tend to watch every part of her during the act anyway..... I do love to see a woman who enjoys herself. I know some women who are self concious feel funny about being looked at but damn if I'm with them and there are feelings between us she's the sexiest woman anywhere when we're together.
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04-03-2005, 09:34 PM
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I don't mind watching and/or being watched while masturbating -- especially if there is a naughty diagolgue to go with it. I *do* find it hard just to watch though -- I end up wanting to participate.
Same thing with a watcher during sex......s/he better join int he action soon because it's so much more fun that way!
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04-03-2005, 09:43 PM
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It is nice to be watched and watch.
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04-04-2005, 03:11 AM
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I love for my wife to look at me ... for any reason. It's a real turn on.
Enjoy the thought of others, too, but (even though I've posted pictures here at Pixies), I really don't feel that confident about how I look.
You ladies are the beautiful ones! Exceptionally so, I might add.
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04-04-2005, 03:46 PM
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I would enjoy being "discovered" pleasuring myself and watched without my knowledge. That's a frequent fantasy of mine. Mrs. WI has watched me before but she doesn't get much of a charge out of it. For me, it's about the attitude. I'd love to have someone watch me and urge me on...really enjoy watching me. Wow, that'd be great!
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04-04-2005, 09:42 PM
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04-04-2005, 09:52 PM
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Not there yet.....
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It was fun at first but i haven't done either for awhile..
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04-04-2005, 10:22 PM
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I enjoy watching my s/o masturbate as well as her watching me. We both get turned on by it. As far as others watching us having sex...i dont think so..might make em sick..
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04-11-2005, 04:04 PM
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Ummm...being watched having sex with my husband would freak me out! Not something I would like....but him watching me masturbate is hot! I love that! I like to watch him as well! Now watching a couple have sex would be interesting!
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