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Couple divorce after online 'affair'
A Bosnian couple are getting divorced after finding out they had been secretly chatting each other up online under fake names.
Sana Klaric, 27, and husband Adnan, 32, from Zenica, poured out their hearts to each other over their marriage troubles, and both felt they had found their real soul mate.
The couple met on an online chat forum while he was at work and she in an internet cafe, and started chatting under the names Sweetie and Prince of Joy.
They eventually decided to meet up - but there was no happy ending when they realised what had happened.
Now they are both filing for divorce - with each accusing the other of being unfaithful.
Sana said: "I thought I had found the love of my life. The way this Prince of Joy spoke to me, the things he wrote, the tenderness in every expression was something I had never had in my marriage.
"It was amazing, we seemed to be stuck in the same kind of miserable marriages - and how right that turned out to be.
"We arranged to meet outside a shop and both of us would be carrying a single rose so we would know the other.
"When I saw my husband there with the rose and it dawned on me what had happened I was shattered. I felt so betrayed. I was so angry."
Adnan said: "I was so happy to have found a woman who finally understood me. Then it turned out that I hadn't found anyone new at all.
"To be honest I still find it hard to believe that the person, Sweetie, who wrote such wonderful things to me on the internet, is actually the same woman I married and who has not said a nice word to me for years."
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09-17-2007, 09:14 PM
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09-17-2007, 09:32 PM
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OMG IAKG~ I thought the exact same thing... 
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09-18-2007, 01:23 AM
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I like; a) taint brushing: b) a good cigar: c) our juices together; d) champagne: e) protein squirts; f)more of these; g)much more of these; h) Damn, slide that thing into me. Deep!
Adage: 2 things are certain in life; Death & Taxes. Therefore; God & Beelzebub had a meeting to fix the problem. A mighty storm prevailed for ages until finally they ended the storm with the agreement: From now on Anyone whom chooses doesn't have to die. "Everyone wins said Beelzebub. You get an eternally grateful bunch of worshippers praying forever for lower taxes as I goad & prod them forever with higher & higher taxation."
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09-18-2007, 02:05 AM
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Is it only me, who thinks that perhaps this marriage is worth salvaging.
I don't expect there are many couples out there who'd manage to choose the same person unwittingly twice. If you can fall in love with someone all over again like that, then surely they should agree to stay together and make changes in their marriage?
Fate clearly has decided they should be together!
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09-18-2007, 02:14 AM
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Rightly said L
They rediscovered a common element in a hoped for affair. They oughta open their minds and grow their hearts. Take the chance at least. After all, what do they have to lose? A new friend?!
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I like; a) taint brushing: b) a good cigar: c) our juices together; d) champagne: e) protein squirts; f)more of these; g)much more of these; h) Damn, slide that thing into me. Deep!
Adage: 2 things are certain in life; Death & Taxes. Therefore; God & Beelzebub had a meeting to fix the problem. A mighty storm prevailed for ages until finally they ended the storm with the agreement: From now on Anyone whom chooses doesn't have to die. "Everyone wins said Beelzebub. You get an eternally grateful bunch of worshippers praying forever for lower taxes as I goad & prod them forever with higher & higher taxation."
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09-18-2007, 02:43 AM
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Lou, citrus.
That kind of emotional renaissance requires that the couple be mature enough to put aside the ingrained hurt they have both felt.
It doesn't look too good.
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09-18-2007, 05:16 AM
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09-18-2007, 08:01 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Aqua
Now they are both filing for divorce - with each accusing the other of being unfaithful.
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"Hello Kettle...this is Pot. You're black."
I see the solution to their problem. It's really quite simple.
They need to change their names to Sweetie and Prince of Joy.  I do agree that were they to push past the pain, they'd see the things they rediscovered in each other and it could serve as an awakening for their relationship, but that's probably easier said than done. Not many people get the chance to fall in love again.
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09-18-2007, 10:35 AM
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Some people just don't get it.
Some people deserve it when they do.
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09-29-2007, 01:02 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Loulabelle
Is it only me, who thinks that perhaps this marriage is worth salvaging.
I don't expect there are many couples out there who'd manage to choose the same person unwittingly twice. If you can fall in love with someone all over again like that, then surely they should agree to stay together and make changes in their marriage?
Fate clearly has decided they should be together!
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No, Lou, that is my thought, too. Clearly, they are able to communicate without the burden of the years getting in the way. I often think about that, how amnesia would be so helpful in a marriage. You wake up and think "God, who is this fantastically witty and handsome man in my bed? He rocks. I'm so lucky!" Which is what we thought when we first knew them, and is a helluva lot better than, "Damnit, he left all the lights on in the house AGAIN!" 
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