My wife is a sweet, lovely and kind hearted woman.

She knows I am a perv, but her libido/interests don't fall in that direction.

But I know she would enjoy it if she tried. She has tried many new (non-sexual) things that she thought she wouldn't like, and has been glad she did.

So how should I get her into it?

Clandestine seduction? Open communication? What?

Who has experience out there? HELP ME!!!!

try talkin to her about it???

it may work? communication is the "key"

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Your wishes, not hers.

The cost of misreading her probable reaction may be as high

as most of what you love and care for.

Talk it through and talk it again.

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here's an idea for you. get together a group of your closest friends individuals that you know that your significant other is comfortable around. make sure to have a healthy supply of spirits around (wine, whiskey, gin, etc.). once everyone is sipping and talking etc. have someone drop the idea of playing that time honored game "truth or dare". it may sound kinda childish but many an inhibition has been broken due to this game and a slight amount of alcohol. even if your lady is a social drinker and knows her limit once the game turns to sexual matters and everyone is into it instigate a little stimulation and go for it. if she balks at the idea of it at that moment you can use the fact that you were a little tipsy as your excuse for being so forward in mixed company. it's just a suggestion.

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Doubting, dreaming dreams
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