Do you think that you learn how to orgasm, or does it just happen one day?

If you rely on a trusted method, do you run the risk of losing the ability to orgasm through different experience and stimulation?

Do you think that men could learn to have more powerful orgasms, rather than thinking that ejaculation is the obvious and only measure?

From my experiences, I think it just happens one day. All of a sudden, those feelings just overwhelm you, and...you know.

Now that I've bought my first toys, I guess I have a worry in the back of my mind that I won't be able to or be as quick to orgasm once I get back into a regular sexual relationship again.

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Though dreams can be deceiving, like faces are to hearts; they serve for sweet relieving when fantasy and reality lie too far apart.-Fiona Apple

Do you think that men could learn to have more powerful orgasms, rather than thinking that ejaculation is the obvious and only measure?
Vigil - I can't say I'm very hopeful of men learning anything! Except how to use a measuring tape, of course, and we all know how much use that is.

A question for the ladies though; it seems that girls learn how to masturbate in their favourite position only and can get fixated with it. They can even get to the point when they can only orgasm in that particular way. Do you think that their future would be brighter if they started early to learn how to orgasm in all sorts of different ways? Particularly with something inside them?

DAMN IT ALL TO HELL!!!!!!!!!

That is the problem.. I NEED to LEARN how to orgasm!!!! GEEZ... can't believe it has taken me this long to figure out that that's what I need to do...

Anyone willing to help this poor girl out???

All reasonable offers accepted

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We can't even use the measuring tape right?

You see Jenna - the richness of life is to keep learning.

But from what I read, you should be giving the lessons. Perhaps a weekend course with Lillith, Diva, Sharniqua and others would open our eyes?

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Vigil, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.

Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.

Jennaflower...

PM me. We'll practice together, ok love?

*away from prying eyes of course*

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Everyone knows that laugher is great foreplay!

men can have better orgasms by holding them off the long you hold off the better it is

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it's only kinky the first time

it's not the orgasm but getting there thats fun

a shot in the bush is worth two in the hand

whip me, beat me, tie me up, break my arm, but please don't break my heart

"The trouble with the world is that the stupid people are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt" -Bertrand Russell

hehehe.. Randygal... I just might have to take you up on that Looks like I have all the time in the world to work on my masturbation technique.

i never masturbated until after i was married (tells ya something don't it?), but once i decided to do it (i was always like noooo, i'm not going to do that.....dunno why) it was something i kept right on doing, and i enjoyed it and wondered why the hell i waited so long.......i didn't even have my first orgasm until i was 19.......i know i lived a sheltered life. Just as long as i'm nice and wet, i go to town on that clit.

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