two basic questions. one is rough sex the same as s&m? for some reason s&m makes me think of scripted uniformed strangeness.
the second part is how many people enjoy rough sex? my take on rough sex is along the lines of ripping of clothes,biting/leaving trails of hickeys,pinching and moderate slapping, hair pulling and/or basically attempting to overpower the other whether or not they try to overpower you.

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Doesn't sound like sex at all, call me old fashioned if you like, but it's not for me mate.

i meant while engaging in intercourse. instead of soft touches and kisses.

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I like it that way sometimes, although anything that you hurt from later may not be all that good. I do like pretend fighting, like 'no dont touch me there' and puhsin em away, of course while laughing and joking..

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I'm not into pain, but an occasionally slap on the ass while doing doggie is fine with me.

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I agree with Xpose!On my old job;I used to be envious of my
buddy&his other buddy!I can't play around with fighting.I'm afraid
that I would get carried away!All of my life;I was taught that if
someone hit you;you hit them back harder.To me it's not a game;
it's a conditioned reflex. Irish
P.S.Old habits; sometimes keep you alive but at other times;they
are very inconvenient!

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I like sex when it's urgent and animalistic. If a guy ripped my clothing or pulled at my hair a little while really lost in the moment then that would be more than fine with me, but as for purposely going out to pinch or make love bites (something I can't stand for some reason) that's not my thing at all . . .if I get hurt during a really wild bout of sex, then fair enough, but I don't go out looking to hurt or be hurt . . .apart from perhaps the odd bit of spanking.

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I think it can be a form of S&M......I think "role play" when I think of scripted stuff (not for me)..........

as for rough sex~ yes please

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I think everyones description on "rough" is gonna be a bit different... ones person's rough might be anothers boring.

My personal definition of "rough" is probably more "passionate" in that it isn't meant to hurt... just to intensify

Bring it on hunny I'm game for the ruff stuff you know that...makes me crazy.Bite,pull,slap oh and the hickeys on the insides of my thighs...oh yeah !!! A little to cold for the chains in the cellar thou....then again

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I look at it as more enthusiastic, not abusive.

I'd dearly LOVE to have some passionate ripping of the clothing...a slap on the ass......oh yeah.............


(I have these raggy undies that I'd wear just for events like these...and my partner could RIP them off and dramatically throw them to the side! OH YEAHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhhh!!)





Yep. Enthusiastic, energetic, fun, exciting, passionate, heated FUCKING! Sounds so nice, doesn't it?

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I think that rough sex and S&M are definitely different although can be very similar but of course everyones perception is different .. and of course I love rough sex and as far as S&M I like many aspects of it but am a little more into the B&D.

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Rough sex? Yes please It definitely has a time and a place in my sex life

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Rough sex...hmmmmm....all I can say is that before or after I get mine

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