With all the hoopla about pheremones out there, and perfumes & oils for sale, it got me thinking about the role scents play in our sexual drive.

Is there a smell that instantly turns you on? Something obvious like the "scent of a woman" or something you associate with your present or a previous S/O? I have a neighbor that gets ravishinly horny when she smells diesel fuel. Her husband is a long-haul trucker and when he comes in the door reeking of diesel, she's horny as hell. Over time, she's blended the two sensations and now her legs fly apart when the school bus drives by. Ok, so I exagerate a little. But just a little.

I was carrying my wife's purse the other day, because I'm a liberated husband and totally secure in my masculinity...and because I know it didn't look stupid with my matching belt & shoes...when I caught a whiff of the bottle of patchouli oil she keeps in it. I popped wood instantly. That stuff drives me wild with desire.

So, ladies and gentlemen, is there a scent that does it for you? And if so, then why?

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.