I just saw the movie The Wedding Date...which was pretty good.

In the movie Nick (Dermont Mulroney) basically stated that women choose the kind of love life she wants. What I am asking from you all is Do you really beleive that? I guess this can go for the guys as well... just curious to know what yall think.

Do you beleive that people (men and women) choose the kind of love life they have?

Even if they are sad and alone to haveing the best love affair ever? Or do other factors come into it?

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"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.

that's interesting... personally, I think that other factors have to be part of the equation. I mean because there seem to be plenty of people out there who are looking for what they want, but for one reason or another just haven't found it yet. I'm sure that personal choices do play a role in it... but there are definately other forces at work

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I think we can't help who we're attracted to, and depending on how in tune with yourself you are, by choosing the ones we do...sometimes we create our love affairs, and sometimes we discover them.

I know, it seems like a total non-answer. But it's hard to describe. I guess what I'm trying to say is that some seek out people whom they know they'll have a certain kind of relationship with, some people start with the idea of the relationship they want and look for someone to fit it, and others have an idea of what they want...and it all goes out the window when they meet someone.

For me, it's deja vu. It's always new, yet like a favorite sweater.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Define “love life”.

If ‘love life’ is the sexual acts, interests, fantasies, and fulfillments of each other physical desires and pleasures, we come to a place like Pixies to be with others that are open and comfortable with this aspect of ourselves.

If ‘love life’ is sharing the interests and experiences of the world and life as we explore and pass through it, we finds like others where we chose to spend our time.

If ‘love life’ is when we learn and evolve our mutual ideals and values of importance, fair, respectable and acceptable for both to share, we communicate beyond ourselves.

If you get these parallel attractions together in two people at the same time, you just call it ‘love’. That’s the tricky part.

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For some people it is not necessarily a choice but a lack of options. I have always tried to keep my options open to life as a whole and it has led me to some really wonderful people and it's also led me to some folks who had an elevator that didn't go all the way to the top floor. Much the same holds true for one's love life. We learn to enjoy ourselves in a certain way and then we stick with what feels comfortable to us. A lot depends on our socialization and what we've been taught is "right and wrong" and the rest comes from expriementation. Finding someone who is willing to open up their ability to enjoy new experiences is a blessing. But I have found that for me, comfort is more important than new experiences.

I totally believe you are in control of the sort of relationship you attract.

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