All over the world, men and women are flirting with strangers in chat rooms (and BB's) on the internet. Are they cheating on their real life mates? At what point do you think they go over the line (if there is a line)?

Of course not. Typing is not cheating.



When they meet for sex. (There is a line if they established boundaries in their relationship.)

I agree with Lorelei I take a good note of her posts i think she is a very intelligent young lady (sexy too)

keep posting Hun

For once I too totally agree with Lorelei.

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I disagree. If you're seeking sex elsewhere, be it chat, phone, or real-time, there's probably something lacking in your relationship (unless your SO knows about it). Just my opinion and I don't judge anyone for chatting online while married.

I think this case is a bit compareable to the question if it is cheating having sex with a prostitute.
What do you think?

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I disagree german steve, having sex with a prostitute is cheating. But having conversations with members of the opposite sex that may be about sexual matters doesnt even come close.

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A conversation about sexual matters is one thing but having cyber sex is on a whole different level to me. Personally I would consider it cheating, but that's just me

At the point where they break a promise made to their mate(s). What promises people make is, of course, up to the individuals involved.

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I'm sayin' no more!

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I am sorry guy's but I am going to have to dissagree with you all. Personally from my own experiences with my current partner ( as u may see by my post's ) I do consider it to be cheating.

But as what point of sex talk or flirting harmlessly and as was meantioned, how do you know when you have crossed the line??
I have had a few debate with other Pixies mebers about this and at the end of the day I beleive that it's no right, it is wrong of a s/o to flirt with another member of the oppisite sex, but at the same time, I do not consider it so dreadfully harmful to be considered cheating

In regards to talking about sex with the oppisite sex. There are two roads that this topic could go down. As, for example in my situation with my partner and the troub;e I was having wih him, I beleive that have a general sex chat with a member of the oppisite sex is harmless and there is nothing to it, but at the same time I beleive that the line is crossed when one party starts going into intimate details of there body, sexual fantasies and to the endless point in where in becomes into cyber/phone sex. Now I beleive that, that is cheating.

I also beleive that when your s/o is talking with another person about sex I do not beleive that it is right for your s/o to go into details of your own sex life for example, what positions do you do?, fave positions? I don't beleive that is cheating but at the same time, I do not approve of it.

Sorry it has to be said... I find it interesting that you don't approve, but you don't leave him either.

Wow... a long ago post... so long ago that the only reason I know it was mine was my name attached to it. LOL... Have I really been around that long??? Time flies when you are having fun...

Nice to see that the debate continues....