Ok Everyone... Once again I need all of your help...

I have had it with the girls I live with!!! I live in a house full of girls, I live in a Scholarship Program and they are all forever judging me. I tried to move out of the house but some things fell through with the apartment my roomate and I were looking into. Anyway here's what's up...

I get persecuted because I enjoy sex and because I talk to people online and then eventually bring them into my "real life." I just had a girl walk into my room and tell me that my friend who is planning on visiting and us meeting for the first time can not come and stay at the house. THIS IS BULLSHIT...

What is the difference from going out in a club and picking someone up for the first time and bringing them home sleeping with them and then sending them on their way???

They forget I pay rent just like them and they aren't staying in my room... he won't be even looking at them... more than half the house is leaving for break anyway. WTF is wrong with these fucking bitches! I hate using that language but Damn I am pissed!!! What happens in this room is between my roomate and I, what gives them the fricken right to tell me what to do??

Someone... please tell me what to do... I need a way to calm down or something... and no the usual masterbation fest hasn't worked... Maybe someone can tell me something to say to them. The problem is that I am someone that hates conflict and to avoid it I just agree with them and I have finally gotten to the point I could burst.

I am so glad this is the last month for the year but then it all starts back up in August...

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~Kaelynn~

Some days life can be shitty , some days life can be outstanding ;
Sometimes you find love , sometimes you find fun ;

Just remember through all these changes you are you, special and unique...

Just a reminder to those who are like me and need it...

Want me to come help you kick their immature asses?
They can't stop you from having friends over but, since you share the rent with them sleeping over isn't good unless they do it too.
I had a girlfriend I lived with once. I finally moved out. It was like Grand Central Station there. I couldn't ever get any sleep. Partied every nite and constantly watching my bedroom door at nite lol. You may want to consider a motel to keep the peace until then.

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Kaelynn,

I wish I could give you an answer that will help. I know the frustration that you're feeling, having been in a similar situation once upon a time.

There is no difference between what you are proposing, and what happens at the bar. It just appears that your room-mates have no concern for you and your apparent needs, and wishes. They don't have the right to tell you who can visit and who can't, especially considering they won't even be there.

Maybe this is the time for a confrontation, with the hopes that time apart will help them "grow up" and things won't be as tense, when they return.

As has been told to me numerous times, feel free to vent here. Maybe some of the other members will have suggestions.

Sorry I can't offer much.

Ok I live in a college dorm basically... it is a special program that has a house on campus so it isn't like we are all splitting the rent, that would be different I would have more consideration. There are locks on all the bedroom doors, the girl that said something always locks her door anyway. I am not a hard person to get along with. They just like to control me cause they know I am easy to control.

We are all in college, and it isn't like I am below them, I earned the same right to live here just like they did. They seem to discredit me for everything I do. For example one time, I was discussing masterbation with this same girl and she freaked out and said and "I suppose that's why you did so well in your classes last quarter", a complete attack on the fact that I hadn't done well cause I was actually working for a living to put myself through school and I was taking three very hard classes that I should have never scheduled together. She doesn't have to work this gets under my skin cause she bitches I never study GET THE HELL OFF MY BACK!! DO YOU WORK 40 hours and take 24 Credit Hours!?? I didn't think so... Her parents help her and not to mention she has earned scholarships. I am not discrediting her acheivements just saying STOP JUDGING ME FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THINGS HOLY!!!


Cowgirltease Could you PLEASE come KICK their ASS?!

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~Kaelynn~

Some days life can be shitty , some days life can be outstanding ;
Sometimes you find love , sometimes you find fun ;

Just remember through all these changes you are you, special and unique...

Just a reminder to those who are like me and need it...

You never did tell me if they have guys over or not...
One.....They are jealous of you.
Two...... Don't discuss your personal life with them. They aren't mature enough to handle it.
Three....... Find new roommates ok?
GREAT BIG ((((((HUGS)))))))

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I am here for only a short time on this earth. My goal is to make everyone I see smile if only for a moment.

You offer the best advice and I wish I could listen here is the deal..

It is a house of 19 girls, it is basically a college dorm. Some of them have guys over all the time, the girls at hand one had a bf and he comes over all the time, he and I are friends, and so is she and I for the most part she is just easily prompted by "the Agitator" as I call her... she is a prude has guys over to study, but never a bf she is too good for any guy.

The Agitator I never tell my personal life to she has gotten info from others I use to trust, from listening in to my phone convos, and from reading my computer screen when I am away from it.

I want NEW roomates, just can't afford a different situation at this time.

I have discussed my friend coming with my real roomate the one that I share my room with and she doesn't mind at all. So why does anyone else care???

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~Kaelynn~

Some days life can be shitty , some days life can be outstanding ;
Sometimes you find love , sometimes you find fun ;

Just remember through all these changes you are you, special and unique...

Just a reminder to those who are like me and need it...

If you're not the only one then tell her to mind her own damn business.
Time to get tough and quit letting her bully you around.
I'm glad you PM'd me.

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I am here for only a short time on this earth. My goal is to make everyone I see smile if only for a moment.