God know's I havent' posted in this thread in forever. But here's the thing. My g/f and I (for all those members that know me, yes I have a g/f..lol), are having some problems. She doesn't realize it yet, but we are. I've spoken to her about it, but she just laughs it off and blames it on mood swings. (She's 22). Anytime I'm ready for sex, she's not in the mood, and the only time she wants to initiate sex is right after she's done something that she knows pisses me off. Now I know a few of you are gonna say "well she just wants rough sex or makeup sex" but when I DO go through with her advances it's a quick "damn that was good *snore*". I have the feeling she's either cheating on me or is on the "I just want to be friends" trainride. Any suggestions will be appreciated.

Mrs. WI does the same damn thing to me when she is falling asleep! OMG, she is half a second away from snoring and she'll blurt out something that totally pisses me off...and then she's asleep! And there I lay all aggravated!


She denies it's intentional so I've come to the conclusion that she needs to know I'm awake so she can feel safe. lmfao


To answer your question...I've always believed that sex is the barometer of a relationship. If the sex changes for the worse then there's a reason for it. Not necessarily an indication of infidelity, but something important. Let's be honest, when you're not happy with someone...you're not all that fired up to fuck them!

So what's going on? What's changed?

I'd have to agree with WI here....also...22..mood swings...hate to ask but is she late or...?
I've also heard a woman reaches her sexual prime in her late 30's.

You are already doing the most important thing. You're paying attention.

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It sounds to me like she would rather fuck than communicate. Easier to blow you and get you to forgive her than to say that she was wrong or make ammends verbally. I think she's using sex as a cop out.

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Okay..question... has she always been like that with you? Or is it a change in how she operates?

So far I agree with Lilith.. But there are MANY reasons why this could be happening.

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