As some of you might recall, I've been divorced now for 8 months. I'm now getting to the stage where I might want to start a new relationship.

Thru another website I met a friend, but due to circumstances, she has found someone else to make her happy, and for this I am glad, because I don't believe that I was what she truly needed. We are still friends, but not as close, and that is probably my fault.

After all that I have been thru, I'm ready to move on. For a while, and even now occasionally, I realize I'm not ready to "settle down" again, but at the same time, I readily admit I am a TERRIBLE, "Single" person. I like my space, but I also hate being alone all the time, and miss having adult company.

I get time with my son and it is well and good, and getting better....... YIPPEE, but still.

I've looked into some "on-line" dating services, and even some more "adult" personals websites. (IT amazes me how they can get away with "advertising" ads there, like "WetNReady", 28F, Burton, when actually the profile for the person says she lives in Texas, but we are lead to believe she is "local".)

Sorry, I digress.

I also placed an "ad" on YA-hoo, in the hopes of finding someone that I can get to know, and hopefully, grow with.

Has anyone had success with "on-line" dating? I'm feeling stuck.

Thanks

I've met a few women from "dating" sites. Two turned out to be very expensive mistakes. One turned out to be a very good friend. Otherwise, it was just a way to pass time.

Best of luck to you!

Answer him Boog. It's addressed to you.

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Just had a thought, (RUN for cover, everyone!!!)

My previous post might sound a little scatter-brained, and quite possibly offensive. That is not my intent. I'm not trying to place myself in a position to objectify women, with a "one-night stand". I really DO want more, but I'm just not sure of how much.

I don't have any friends that can "set me up", and I'm not good at the "bar scene", besides I've been there, done that, and just bought lots of drinks for ladies who wanted to get drunk on my tab.

Excuse Me!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

What do you mean by that????
Are you refering to me??????
Think again old man!!!!!!!

I say just let it happen.....when you least expect it you will meet someone.

Just remember to let them know what you are or are not looking for or expecting.

Sometimes ya gotta be friends first before lovers.

I was NOT referring to you. It didn't say "Ok...yet another sexy question"

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Never done internet dating, but met someone at Pixies who became a very close friend, and when we met up in person it was just right.

We're now coming up on our first Wedding Anniversary and are expecting a baby in November! It can work out, but my advice is just go with the flow, rather than go out searching for dates. Perhaps you should concentrate your efforts on finding yourself, rather than finding someone else. In my experience, that's when you end up bumping into Mr/Miss Right.

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Fruit flies like a banana"

M Y - N A U G H T Y - P I C T U R E S ! !

Hi Sweetie, good to see you posting again.

I have to go with the other posters and say it's best when it just happens. I met my JassWolf on Literotica when I was looking for help with a story. It was a wonderful thing that we happened to click from the start.

I'm not opposed to the online dating scene. I have had friends who have tried it and didn't have much luck and I know of a couple of people who it has worked out for. I would suggest its best to be yourself and make as many friends as you can. When the right "her" comes along you will know it.

Good luck!

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My Story~ Friday Night Spanking

I found this on another personals site. ...........this is the "false advertising" that I'm talking about. According to her profile, she is from Lansing, MI, 40 minutes from me, yet in her introduction she's in New Hampshire???


I am a: Woman

And interested in
meeting a: Man

For: Erotic Email or Cyber Sex, Discreet Relationship or Casual Sex, Other Sexual Activities

Age: 31

Introduction title: hello fellas!!

Introduction text: I\\\'m Taylor..I live in Amherst New Hampshire. I work at a Hollywood Tans in Nashua which is simply amazing! I Just recently graduated cosmetology school and I\\\'m starting out working at a salon in the around where i live.. Just ASK if you wanna know more! <3


Describe what you are
looking for in person: im looking for that tall dark and handsom guy. you know who you are...hit me up so we could kick it some time!!cant wait to hear from you!!


City: Lansing

State: Michigan

Country: United States

Advert last updated: 2006-08-28 12:14:13

Shame, 1nutworld.

She's obviously a lady of very very broad interests.

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40 minutes....at 1191 mph

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Captain Kirk, can I borrow the starship tonight?

Remember to refuel, and don't bring back any of those stupid furry things this time!

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.