So tell me honestly. Does anyone believe that there is actually someone out there that the universe has set you up be with? I mean the idea sounds great but I dont know. The idea is kinda wierd to me. I mean especially since I dont really date. Actually now that i am out of college I am trying to figure out how I am going to find anyone. I mean there is no way really to find someone. Everyone is off limits. Everyone either has a bf or gf or otherwise society says dont approach anyone. I dont know. It seems like everyone i know has given up on this crazy idea of finding someone.

I think ya need to re read what ya wrote there

You are putting barriers up around yourself...making yourself offlimits not the other way around. There are plenty of ways to find someone. Not everyone one has a bf/gf....everyone is NOT offlimits

Do i believe in soulmates....yes

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I most definitely believe in soulmates. I believe that there is more than one person in the world who can be your soulmate. However, I do believe it is possible to live one's life without ever meeting at least one soulmate, or perhaps meeting them and not recognizing them for what they are.

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Si à travers nos veines coule encore le sang...
Si dans les jeux d'enfants on entend encore l'accent...
Si nous sentons encore l'espoir de nos grands-parents...
Si dans les voiles du large souffle encore le vent...
Y'a jamais eu de Grand Dérangement.

Soulmates are a class of people who are very closely compatible with your class of people.

Recognition, not acquisition, is the key.

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I've found a few people who I am pretty sure I could spend the rest of my life happy with...and I was fortunate enough to marry one.


Give it time, she will show up just when you don't expect her!

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

I believe in soulmates, and have met a few in my time, but only one of the ones I've met has been male.

Having experienced finding and losing female soulmates, I made damn sure I wasn't about to lose him, so instead I dragged him off and married him and we're currently working on the 'happily ever after' bit.

I've said this to you before, I'm sure, but stop focusing on trying to find someone and instead try to find yourself. You'll never recognise a soulmate if you don't know your own soul, so focus on that instead and you'll be surprised how easily everything can suddenly fall into place.

On a worst case scenario, that you don't ever meet 'the one for you', you're going to be going through life alone, so you may as well make the best of it and enjoy what you have right now. Look around you, you have more than some people could ever dream of: freedom, the ability to walk on your own two legs, the ability to express yourself and the hope of healthy relationships in the future. There are people in the world who'd give anything to have any of those things, and you've got all of them. Your life is blessed, you have so many things to celebrate, so enjoy them while you can.

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Fruit flies like a banana"

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