There are lots of people at Pixies who seem to be in really great relationships and I can't imagine many of you lovely people cheating (by which I mean having a sexual/romantic relationship with someone besides your partner without your partner's knowledge and/or consent - open relationships/swinging don't count, in my book)

Having said that, when you look at the wider society, it seems that at some point or other, pretty much everyone seems to have cheated while in a major relationship, so, what I want to know (in poll form so it's totally anonymous) is how many people have cheated on their partner/spouse?

This isn't about the rights and wrongs of it and I don't expect people to post their confessions, just an honest answer in the poll will do. Just trying to see how many people really manage to stay faithful to try to gauge what our chances are as a couple. Seems to me, that if most people don't manage it, then it's an near impossible goal to live up to.

Oh and you can tick all that apply to you.

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M Y - N A U G H T Y - P I C T U R E S ! !

OK - So I will weigh in on this in public, too. Mr Osuche and I are monogamous. We've been married for 2.5 years, and I've been a good, good girl....although not without some temptations.

I've managed to muddle through and I intend to keep muddling, though.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Never cheated on my wife and never expect too. Today's the 47th anniversary of the day we met and next month we'll celebrate our 44th wedding anniversary. I think we're going to make it.

I guess I know when I've got a good thing.

Never cheated, been very tempted and came close but stayed faithful in the end.

I think another question is what do you consider cheating. I used to be friends with one couple who considered flirting cheating, where as I think anything short of sexual contact without your partners consent cheating.

Not this time around.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating

I never physically cheated. I did emotionally cheat. I think that is just as wrong and will never allow myself to that again. Even though, I'm incredibly happy with the outcome.

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Owning Pita, by my JassWolf!!
My Story~ Friday Night Spanking

I've ticked "No, I haven't cheated on my current partner" but that's a bit out of date because we've just divorced (after 27 years). I did meet and have sex with a woman I contacted via the internet a few months ago, but that was after my wife had started divorce proceedings.

Meanwhile, onwards and upwards...

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Erotically yours... Gus

I'm beginning to think that maybe some folks arent wired for monogamy.

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It's a BOY!!

The definition of "cheating" is so personally interpreted. To some, I may have cheated...to Mr. Lixy, he trusts my heart!

Interpret that^^^^^^^

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~Thomas Dewar~

That is basically all I've ever asked out of a relationship. I'd be open to an open relationship but it becomes not faithful when the things start happening behind my back. BTDT and it's not fun at all.

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No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever. ~~ Francois Mocuriac

Confucius say, "He who masturbate into cash register come into money."

An optimist looks at the glass and says it's half full. A pessimist looks at the glass and says it's half empty. A Cubs fan looks at the glass and says, "When's it gonna spill?"

Deus Impetitio Esuritori Nullus

I'm not, and I know it.
I have tried it, and was desperately miserable. Worse, I didn't find out until the end I was the ONLY one being monogamous.

I am what I am. Slut, wildchild (not anywhere near being a child anymore, but the old name stuck), "roundheels", "Little Easy" (not a whore, don't do it for money), and other less pleasant names, but I am me.

WW

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