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Old 10-20-2009, 12:11 AM
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So,

I've been chatting with this girl at work who is pretty sexually open. In a clean way! We were chatting about wether or not I'd ever been with another woman. I told her no, and she asked why not. And honestly, I could NOT come up with a good reason why. I told her I'd always wanted to try it but figured it was out of the picture now that I was married to my husband.

Lo and behold, he and I have had this convo. a few years back and he was open to a three some of the MFF type. I told my friend this and she said well....when are we going to do it? I was flabbergasted to say the least.

She suggested we start out by her and I making out without my husband present to make sure I like the whole gir/girl experience. That makes sense to me. Plus he's cool with that.

What get's me about the whole situation is I'm extremely shy sexually. Even with my own husband, and we just celebrated our 5th anniversary.

Should I just start with making out with her or maybe I should try a whole sexual experience with her first, then bring in my husband? What do you all think?? Yes, he does know who this other girl is too, they have met. SO she's not a complete stranger.
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Old 10-20-2009, 03:47 AM
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If this liaison is not something that you actively seek, as opposed to something that your husband and this work colleague desire, then I would think hard before proceeding.

If you decide to go ahead with it, make sure it's about you, not just them.
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Old 10-20-2009, 10:31 AM
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Should I just start with making out with her or maybe I should try a whole sexual experience with her first, then bring in my husband? What do you all think??


You should start out with what you're comfortable with, and back off the instant you're no longer comfortable.
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Old 10-20-2009, 06:37 PM
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You should start out with what you're comfortable with, and back off the instant you're no longer comfortable.


Right. Try it, you might like it!!!

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Old 10-21-2009, 01:17 PM
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Your hubby is so damn lucky that you are considering this. I am totally jealous of him and just wish that my wife would be interested in trying that. Of course I would luv to watch, but even if I were not allowed to at first I would still want her to try it.
Please be sure to let us know how it goes, we really want to hear about it.
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So,

I've been chatting with this girl at work who is pretty sexually open. In a clean way! We were chatting about wether or not I'd ever been with another woman. I told her no, and she asked why not. And honestly, I could NOT come up with a good reason why. I told her I'd always wanted to try it but figured it was out of the picture now that I was married to my husband.

Lo and behold, he and I have had this convo. a few years back and he was open to a three some of the MFF type. I told my friend this and she said well....when are we going to do it? I was flabbergasted to say the least.

She suggested we start out by her and I making out without my husband present to make sure I like the whole gir/girl experience. That makes sense to me. Plus he's cool with that.

What get's me about the whole situation is I'm extremely shy sexually. Even with my own husband, and we just celebrated our 5th anniversary.

Should I just start with making out with her or maybe I should try a whole sexual experience with her first, then bring in my husband? What do you all think?? Yes, he does know who this other girl is too, they have met. SO she's not a complete stranger.
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Old 10-21-2009, 01:24 PM
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Thumbs up i agree...............

.................hubby is a lucky man



make sure you want this.............girl seems eager ..........lay back and enjoy




then hubby is the luckiest dude on earth if you like then.............



please let us know how it goes .........got wood just thinking about it
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Old 10-26-2009, 01:27 AM
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I wish I could coach you. Set it up for a first try as girls and a reprise with the mate joining in. If all goes well, an encore could be a most loving affair!
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Old 10-26-2009, 03:53 AM
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Hmmm... various scenarios suggest themselves:

1. You and your colleague/girl friend go off for a naughty afternoon. After a couple of hours you phone hubby - darling, I'm in bed with **** - want to join us?

2. Over supper at home you say - darling, you remember we talked about an MFF threesome? Well, **** is up for it - what do you think?

Either scenario could end up as the most exciting threesome, or the most excruciating disaster. Which is more likely?

Beats me.
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Old 10-26-2009, 06:20 PM
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Very interested in the decision you make... and how it turns out.. odds are, if you and your husband have remotely discussed it and he appears to be in favor of it, it will turn out to be a great experience.... But only if you determine that you want to try it for YOU. Good luck, ENJOY and keep us all posted
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