06-09-2011, 04:09 PM
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curvy queen
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Define Bi-Sexual
So this is based on the conversation of a close girlfriend and I today.
Background: I am married with children. She is not. We have played together before and we have been with others, both women and men. We've never been with women without a man present, but both agree that it's not off the table. But we are both pretty adamant that we would never want a relationship with a woman...just not interested. Girls are awesome, but they're just for short term fun.
Here's the question: I can see myself identifying as bisexual. She says we are not because we don't want the relationship with the women, just the sex.
Thoughts?
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06-09-2011, 07:37 PM
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♦*♥Moderatrix♥*♦
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For me sexual attraction counts even if it does not mean relationship attraction. If you are sexually attracted to both sexes you are bi.
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06-09-2011, 07:40 PM
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Pixie's Resident Reptile
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Why worry about artificial labels/categories?
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06-09-2011, 07:41 PM
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I believe you said "Define Bi-Sexual", not define bi-relationship.
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06-10-2011, 02:37 AM
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Mod with Bite
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Lilith
For me sexual attraction counts even if it does not mean relationship attraction. If you are sexually attracted to both sexes you are bi.
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06-10-2011, 04:52 AM
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Just me.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Lilith
For me sexual attraction counts even if it does not mean relationship attraction. If you are sexually attracted to both sexes you are bi.
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06-12-2011, 07:20 AM
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While it is usual for people to be sexually predisposed towards members of the opposite sex, one's sexuality is not based upon logic, although the terminology used to describe it is.
A similar problem exists when one looks closely at the term “species.”
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06-12-2011, 07:02 PM
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I always thought it described what you were attracted to, mentally and/or physically.
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06-13-2011, 08:29 AM
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pixie of the wood
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ah, what's in a prefix?
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06-09-2011, 10:44 PM
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Causer of Unrest
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I think the key part of the word is "sexual." But I'm with GG...I don't know why we have to pigeonhole the wondrous variety of sex acts as specific identities. Is my man a secret lesbian if he gives me head? Am I secretly a gay bottom because I like to take it up the ass? Or are sex acts just sex acts, regardless of the relationship of the people enjoying them?
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06-10-2011, 02:00 AM
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^^^
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PANTIES
the best thing next to cuchie
"If God didn't want you to play with it, He would have put it between your shoulder blades,..... not at the end of your arm"
Except for speculation, we ONLY have NOW and EACHOTHER!
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09-16-2013, 01:59 PM
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is not this trim anymore!
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Quote:
Originally Posted by AZRedHot
Am I secretly a gay bottom because I like to take it up the ass?
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11-06-2013, 05:58 AM
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hello
you are whatever you want to be. fuck labels, just fuck
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11-07-2013, 11:34 PM
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either way always have a date on friday night hehehe
sorry was being silly
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11-24-2013, 07:05 PM
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Wanting More
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Wildeye
you are whatever you want to be. fuck labels, just fuck
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Good advice! Labels just complicate everything.
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