I didn't know where else to post this. This is where I hang out the most.

Hubby and I have been have problems for quite some time. He thinks everything is fine, everything that's wrong in our marriage is somehow my
fault. So I've decided to ask him for a divorce. He'll be getting a letter from my lawyer over this week-end.

I'm not feeling very sexy lately. Reading through my old posts and private messages has helped me to feel a little better in that regard. (We haven't had sex in 6 months)

Thanks you for all you kind, encouraging comments. I didn't realize how valuable I would find them until now. I'll still be around, maybe not for a while though.

I will let you know how it goes this week-end. My 15 yr. knows, my 11yr. old doesn't, I'm going to tell him tomorrow, before the letter arrives.

Thank you again for being there for me.

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What is essential is invisible to the eye
Only with the heart can one see rightly.

Pussy Willow,

Good luck! Keep posting.

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Eudaimonia

Be stong, the road ahead is an arduous journey but happiness is so worth it.

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It's always sad to see love end. But a relationship without love is not existing to it's full potential, and people need love in their lives.

I wish you well.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Wishing you only the best.

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~Tainted Love~

((((hugs))))

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Si à travers nos veines coule encore le sang...
Si dans les jeux d'enfants on entend encore l'accent...
Si nous sentons encore l'espoir de nos grands-parents...
Si dans les voiles du large souffle encore le vent...
Y'a jamais eu de Grand Dérangement.

(((((PW))))) ~~ We look forward to your return. In the interim, be good to yourself and your kids.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

You know, I could follow just about every WI post with 'What he said'.

((((Pussy Willow))))

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Put me on wheels and I'll turn tricks.

Clever? Nah, I ran out of that years ago. But if you find this, let me know, k?
"The road goes ever on..." ~ Tolkien

In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

(((((((((PussyWillow))))))))) We're here for you. I hope the talk with the young one goes well.

After almost 5 years here with you, I can say be strong and kind to yourself and be unkind to no one. Your trail may be uphill, but we and many others are at the end.

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I'm new, but I also want to wish you well. I can say from recent and unpleasant experience that life is Waaayyy too short to spend it on things that aren't fulfilling.

I hope you have a lawyer who is good, and not needlessly looking for conflict.

And your kids will of course be both upset and your greatest source of comfort in the months ahead.

Good luck with it all.

JW

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If you're not confused, you're misinformed.

Pussy Willow, I hope the future is bright and cheerfull for you and your children. We'll be here if you need anything.

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Hugs PW........take one day at a time and hang in there........Good Luck!!

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You're about to swim through the biggest bucket of shit and come out the other side stronger and happier.

There are very few good divorces, please make this one of them.

This is always presuming that the letter doesn't jolt open a session of communication with healing results.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating