^.^ OOh! Looks like a fun toy. I need to get me some toys it sounds like. I'm sure WWM69 will appreciate them too lol.

Sex kitten, is your sex life quk or does he take the time to really get you going. the reason I ask is that my wife is the same way. If theres no foreplay for at least around an hour she will not come no mater what. Kinda kills a Quickie.

He takes plenty of time unless I don't let him. Like I said sometimes it's ok if I don't come...like in doggy...I don't mind because its really intense and most of the time it feels like I've cum but I haven't. It's kinda hard to explain. And he hates quickies anyway...says they aren't as fulfilling as hours long sex. I normally have to beg him to go fast and make it quick. Lol. But I'd really like to experience cumming during intercourse.

my gf usually doesnt either......what does work is if she gets on top and leans back......that way i can play with her clit till she is all done! (it feels great also!....he should really like it)

Blue Swede, to answer your question about how long. I believe the great thing about this position is that it really doesn't matter how long the lady takes, as long as she is enjoying herself. The man controls completely how excited he is going to get. He reaches a plateau of excitement and then slows his movements to just coast along at that level. If he needs more excitement he can either speed up or (my favourite) pull out until his cock head is only halfway in. While there he can feel everything you are doing to your clit and will probably have to hide inside you again quickly because it feels soooo nice! Because you are not moving your hips, he can 'cool off' by just lying still inside you.

Milady normally comes in a few minutes, so she is not going to stop at just one orgasm. As she gets more and more excited, she starts chasing my cock head inside her so that no matter if I am trying to move slowly and regularly, I have to come with her like it or not. Just a game - but a nice one. A slim vibe works well like this because she can squeeze it in beside me.

Thanks, ericthered; I appreciate your reply. Hopefully we can at some point give these suggestions a try.

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What's the name of that toy?

Thanks

i've found that if i'm on top and lean forward, i can get my clit to rub against his pubic bone which is enough to send me over. i've gotten so good at it that he'll just lay there and cheer me on while i go to town and make myself happy. ok, so then we end up switching since he says it's only fair that if i cum, he gets to too

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I'm the same way. I've tried several things, different positions, toys, etc, all to no avail.


I think there are just some of us destined to not have it happen.

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One of my wife's favorite sexual positions has her flat on her back, with her legs up and apart, bent at the knees. I kneel between her legs and wrap my arms around them from the top, leaving my forearms supporting them while my hands are both free to roam around. At this angle, penetration stimulates her g-spot and I can also play with her clitoris. If we want to introduce a toy, using a silver bullet on her clitoris is perfect in this position too. I highly recommend giving it a try.

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Bob900, not sure the "name" of the toy but most adult shops would have something similar ... designed to fit over the penis with nobs to stimulate the clitoris. If you stop at one of the stores, no doubt you can find one or the clerk can show you some.