OK, so I'm not a mature woman.....I'm in my mid twenties...which may be why I identify with your wife in all of this.

If I were your wife and I found out you'd been doing this with any woman (let alone my own mother) I would be devastated.

Think about the one person who isn't being given a choice in this situation: you choose to masturbate, your mother-in-law chose to watch, but your wife doesn't even know, so how can she choose whether she wants to be married to someone who is going behind her back with her own mother. Just because you and the mother-in-law aren't touching each other, doesn't mean it's necessarily ok to do what you're doing.

Just my two penneth worth, of course.

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I guess I should have explained myself better. These were isolated incedents. I honestly don't think my wife would mind, but how should that conversation with her start? " I jerked off 9 months ago and I think your mother saw." My wife has a friend, for example, that would get buzzed up with her on the weekends, beer I mean nothing bad. Those two would always try to get me to pull it out or play with it. I know my wife was present, but still very similar in the actual activity. Well I gave her friend a show one night and my wife was turned on when she found out. I told her that I did it, but that I wasn't sure if the friend watched. Her friend told her she saw everything and what she thought of it. Now her friend has told her sister and the last time we were all together, the three of them were trying to get me to pull it out at the kitchen table. Believe me my wife knows I'm a little different. We've known each other literally all our lives. She knows I've been to titty bars, jack shacks, and at least the names of every person I've ever slept with. As I've said before, I don't think she'd be phased at all to hear this, but I don't usually have conversations about my mastubatory schedule. But I do value your opinion and your right, I wouldn't want to hurt her feelings at all.

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That's good to know - please know that I wasn't judging (not my style at all!) I was just concerned that your wife should be considered in this situation - evidently she has been, although I would still suggest letting her in on this somehow - no one likes to be left in the dark and it's often that which can damage a relationship.

Incidentally, it sounds very much like your mother-in-law enjoyed the show - if she hadn't I'm sure she wouldn't have kept watching like she did.

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I didn't take it the wrong way, I knew what you meant. It just got me horny knowing someone was trying to see my pecker.

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"The road of life is rocky and you may stumble too and while you talk about me, someone else is judging you..."

Robert Nesta Marley, "Judge Not" first studio recording Kingston, Jamaica 1962, Age 16