It is very exciting to know you're turning someone on while pleasing yourself. I love the "feedback" and find that when I see signs the person watching is pleased...it definately speeds things along.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.