I am curious, are there any men out there that prefer the skilled hands of a gentle patient lover to masssage your cock to a new level over that of a traditional blow job?

I've read that the point of lingam massage isn't to induce orgasm, although that is a often a pleasant and welcome side effect but rather to create a space for the receiver to relax, and receive expanded pleasure from his Lingam. His partner (the giver) experiences the joy of facilitating and witnessing the man surrendering to his softer, gentler side.

The goal is to massage the Lingam, also including testicles, perineum and Sacred Spot (the equivalent to the female G-spot), and allow the man to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not be used to. From this perspective both receiver and giver relax into the massage.

Men need to learn to RELAX and RECEIVE. Traditional sexual conditioning has the man in a doing and goal oriented mode. The Lingam Massage allows the man to experience his softer, more receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.

I had a friend in China explain to me how he prefers a handjob and it sounded most erotic.

Have any of you tried these techniques or enjoyed the pleasures derived from them?

Any helpful hints or suggestions to those wishing to embark on giving their lover such an experience?

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