rtctfield - I think you have to weigh up all that you'd have to lose from choosing to cheat. If you don't want to lose what you have, just think of that each time you look at the object of your temptation. And if you feel your existing relationship is over, then the respectful thing to do for the woman who's given you 14 years is to leave first, then consider entering into a new relationship.

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