Historically, a slut has always been a person (usually female) who is deemed sexually promiscuous. As time has gone by, like most other terms, this one has extended not only to include men but also behaviors that don't solely center around the number of sexual partners and instead refer to the lack of discrimination one uses in choosing the acts they are willing to perform.

Please ignore, for the sake of discussion, whether or not the term slut is offensive and elaborate on your personal opinion on what a slut (or slutty behavior) is to you. The tone of this discussion should not be derogatory, but respectful and informative.

As for my opinion, though it doesn't really make sense, I don't think married people are acting slutty by wanting to do unusual and kinky things with each other. If Mrs. WI wanted to climb down under the table at a nice restaurant and give me oral...that's not slutty. Or if she wanted to dress provocatively with the intent of turning me on, that's not slutty. That's adventuresome! But if she was masturbating me at the movies and had her legs open so someone else could watch her rub her pussy...well, that's kinda slutty. lol

Thoughts please?

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