hi guys..
ok a strange question... when my girlfriend says she has an orgasm she does not cum, i feel her spasm. esp. when i go down on her but, well, im not sure if im doing it right...! should she ejaculate or just her pussy contract?
also afterwards i cannot touch her clit at all she gets hyper sensitive. i read once that when a woman has her first true orgasm she really knows about it and that sum women dont cum properly until they are 30. is this hearsay?? she hasnt ever screamed or anything like that...

i love her very much, shes my first true love. i want to make her happy!
please help