Hi everyone...

I am married and have been for about 5 years. We don't have any kids. My husband and I get along great, but we don't have much of a sex life. We have sex 1-2 times a month and each time it's not very fun for me. I rarely orgasm and sex is basically focused on getting him off.

I have a normal/high sex drive and the lack of sex is driving me crazy. I've tried giving him sex pointers and he tries, but I can't seem to find anything that works. I've never had these problems with other guys, so I think our sexual chemistry and technique is just off.

I had a friend suggest sex therapy as a solution - she said that the therapist could teach us some techniques and get us to talk more about our issues. I was wondering if any of you have ever tried a sex therapist? Did it help, or have any effect at all?

Any pointers, suggestions, or experiences you could share would be great.