Are you ready for my two cent's worth.......................................

I think men , in general, need to respect women's sexuality.
Here a Pixies this is not a problem, but in the "real" world.......

You could be a little more sensitive. Most women who are dating,
I'm friendly with quite a few, tell me it's hard to find a man who
takes them seriously, and is not just looking for sex. If you are
a man who truly respects women's sexuality then you have to give them a chance to see that.

They are not have having sex with men, not because they are
intimidated by male sexuality, ( if they were, would they really be
in the dating scene?) but because they are getting the impression
they their sexuality isn't being valued and respected. They are
not getting the impression that their "personhood" is being valued and respected.

If you want woman a to have a sexual realationship with you then
you have to be sensitive to her feelings, and respect what she
has to say, and treat her like a person.

I get the impression from your post that you think women are
intimidated by male sexuality because they won't have sex with
you. Most women want intimacy. Maybe they want the intimacy
before they move on to sex. There is a difference in the two you know !!!!!!

I also think that many women are just tired of putting themselves
out there and being disrespected. If women "diss" men, maybe
it's because women have been "dissed" by men and have felt
helpless to do anything about it, and they don't anymore !

Hope this doesn't sound too harsh........................

I also agree with lixnlix69 that your comment about the jumbo jets flying into buildings is very inappropriate.

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