My husband and I recently tried bringing another man into our sex life to spice things up, without the other guy knowing my husband was ok with it. I would have sex with this guy then tell my husband about it. well he decided he didn't want to do this anymore so he told me to stop so I did but told him I wanted to have this guy in my life as a friend only, my husband flipped and since then all we do is fight about it. what do I do?