One of the things my wife loves more than anything is when I "wake" her from a deep sleep by a series of touches, massaging, and whispering into her ear.


When my wife and I do this, it is usually more spontaneous than planed. We just seem to move toward each other and start caressing one another, once I am awake I start to rub and caress her body all over. I try to avoid to much contact with her action spots (breast and pubic area); I also start giving her gentle kisses on her neck and shoulders. I can tell how well she is responding by the way her body is reacting while still in a light sleep she will turn towards me and arch her back more to make her breasts more available, this means she want me to massage and suck on them, When she spreads her legs and starts to rock her hips I gently start rubbing her pussy, alternating between long slow up and down strokes and slow circles covering her whole mound. I make sure to avoid penetrating her with my fingers just staying on the outside of her, lightly rubbing her and only contacting the clit now and then. By now she is awake but she always keeps her eyes closed as if still in dream land. When her breathing becomes shallow and rapid I will slip one or two fingers in side her and make the "come here" motion to rub her G-spot while using my thumb to rub clit this will send her over the edge and she will have a long intense climax. Or sometimes instead off fingering her I will go down on her and tongue her with long strokes from bottom to top and use the underside of my tongue to rub her clit while I slip my finger in to rub her G-spot. Either way she has earth shattering orgasms. At this point she will finally open her eyes, I swear she looks into my soul with look of longing and whispers “I love you" and asks me to make love to her.

My problem here is that by the time she wakes up, I am so turned on, it only takes me a couple of minutes to orgasm, and then I am pretty much done for the night.
Since she has had one orgasm she tells me it’s ok that I finish so soon, but I know she would enjoy it even more if I could hold out and give her a second climax. It is just that I am so worked up with anticipation that I just can’t hold on, I don’t know maybe I am complaining about nothing or maybe some things just cant be over came.

Has anyone else done anything like this?, and does anyone have suggestions on how to slow down the end result, so I am not finishing before she even really has a chance to enjoy the feeling of fullness that comes from being penetrated.

Let me know your thoughts
Thanks

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