a year later he sends me an e-mail telling me he's wondering what site I was on (I think I broke it to him gently about sex sites but I really have no idea why I would do such a thing!!!).

He's in a relationship, I'm in a relationship . . . this thread overlaps so many threads . . . he's not stalking me, he's curious, just bought a new computer .. .

If you know me, I'm easily identifiable on this site . . . would you tell him about this site or no?

I hope this post isn't too confusing to you. It's confusing to me. If you have any questions, please post them and I'll answer.

This guy seemed like a good guy and I thought I could live with him forever but doubts clouded my mind. The sex wasn't all it could have been, I didn't want to live where he lived, I couldn't mention Pixies to him . . .

enter Tyler . . . ANOTHER post to Pixies . . . I'm deciding between the two of them, Tyler was the MUCH better choice, Tyler respects Pixies, the other guy would have mocked it in an argument . . .