I have talked to her more about this and shown her these replies. She still says that is how she got sore. She has dropped the three hour thing though and now says, "it seemed like a long time" and "long enough to get that sore".
She still says he tried twice and never did enter her because she was that dry. She also maintains that she never felt any pain and never felt him trying to enter her. That all it felt like was someone pushing on her. She now says that she was drunk and that is why she felt nothing.
Possible I guess. I would guess that they were drinking beer for about 8 hours before this. Her and I have spent more time sitting around drinking beer before, so this I can see. Though when she came home later, maybe 6 hours after this, she did not act drunk at all or hungover. She says that she never passed out or fell asleep in the motel room either, so she would have been up at this time for about 19 hours.
What I cant see is a 42 year old man being this stupid to continually try to enter a woman twice and do nothing as in foreplay to make her wet. I would never be that stupid anyway.
I can't imagine just drinking beer would numb a woman down there like this, but not being a woman I do not know.
Would being drunk from beer change what and how she felt ?

Thanks