I really don't post much here, but I like to read what everyone has to say. Hopefully the ladies here can answer a question for me about Anal and facials.

My SO will not allow me to perform anal with her, or do the facial because she says it is derogatory and humiliating to women. Anal is something that I would love to try, but I've never had a girlfriend who would let me, but this is the first time someone has said no because it's humiliating.

Facials I find extremely sexy to do with a woman. There's nothing more appealing to me than cumming over her face and seeing her with it just dripping off her face. I've done it before with others and love it.

My question then is actually a 2 parter. 1. Ladies do you allow a male to do either of these? 2. Do you find it derogatory or humiliating to have it done to you?

I would love for my SO to read this and see what other women have to say and maybe change her mind. Thank you for the answers and maybe the help.