Oh - and to answer the question that began the thread:

I really prefer the written word. There is something about a story that is well written that you can emerse yourself in. It allows me to take my mind places and imagine the story happening in my head. It sends me into a different space unlike watching the porn flick and just getting off without using my mind for stimulation.

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Would you like more sex with that?

I wouldn't recommend sex, drugs or insanity for everyone, but they've always worked for me.