I think you have done your best Lil and you got the shitty end of the stick by having to tell her. She just can't impede the other people in the group, if she fails then that is on her head, but she cannot expect other who are working hard to take the fall with her.

Now some questions of mine, these two abbreviations were used in this thread and I don't know what they stand for

1.she is SOL after not showing up for class at all.(SOL?)
2, IMHO ?

Hate not knowing what things mean