My question is if you believe that all fantasies should be made a reality if given the opportunity or should some fantasies remain just that and be enjoyed as such? I find other women sexy and the fantasy of a threesome intrigues me and when I think about it I get really turned on and it's fun to check out women in bars and just think about the what if's, then go home with my husband and have great sex. If we ever actually have a threesome then after the act the fun of that fantasy would be over. I certainly don't see it become a regular act. I just feel like some fantasies you can do more than once and making them a reality is the best, but others the reality is not nearly as much fun as the fantasy. Just wondering how others feel about this...after all, everyone here seems much more comfortable with their sexuality than I do so I'm wondering if that's my hang-up about making certain fantasies real. Maybe the Threesome is a bad example because that has many more implications than just the act itself, at least when you're in a serious relationship like I am.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.