I have what I see as a problem: I am only attracted to cute girls. It’s not that I only value physical beauty, I like caring, adventurous, and most importantly intelligent women (I can’t stand ditz’s), but these traits must be in a pretty package. I realize this inability to overlook the physical is keeping me from knowing some really great women, but knowing and doing are worlds apart. Any advice on how to become more open to those whose assets aren’t immediately apparent?

On a side note, I am not real catch myself as far as physical appearance goes and often are disappointed with (attractive) women not being receptive to me, which is an obvious
hypocrisy on my part.

Any help would be appreciated.