I'm not going to say I know the exact workings of the female mind on this issue (no man ever could), but I am sure if DangerousPet were here she'd tell you about how exciting she gets when dominated.

I can tell you from the guys prospective that it is a huge turn on to feel like you have total control over her. To force her to the bed, to cover her mouth when she argues with you and to spank her till she does as she was told. It's all in the fun of it though as she knows I would NEVER hurt her or do anything she didn't already kinda want to do.

For her (from what she's told me) it's the excitment of getting as close to that line of fear as possible but knowing that after its all over nothing bad has happened.